The results of our actions
We all get that moment where we wish for a second we can go back and change things. For example not do what we did, not say what we said, and so on. The thing is it happened, now we must correct ourselves so we dont do those things again if we ever get in that situation for a second time. There is a lesson in it. The lesson is we know what not to do. Sometimes we let our emotions get the best of us; we are human, we are emotional beings so it happens. Our actions can be hurtful towards someone and our selves. But.. because we act off emotions doesnt mean thats who we are. Dont beat yourself up about it. Admit your faults accept the consequence and carry on to be better than your current state. If you carry around that negative emotion you feel, youll only end up repeating and hurting more people and damaging yourself while at it. We are not perfect, dont try to be. Be you! In this society many people dont know how to be themselves. They also dont know how to appreciate honesty. They will forget about all the honest things you do for them because of 1 negative action. Its emotions.. we thrive off how we feel. It were happy were easy going, if were upset or frustraded we might snap. That doesnt change our character, its just a time and a place and our state of feeling at the moment. What Im getting at is its okay to have different emotions. Just deal with them the best way possible. Try to thrive off being happy as much as possible. Being in a negative emotion can be quite devasting. Remember the old wifes tale; "never make a decision while youre mad!" That saying couldnt be any more true!
Matthew A. Arrant
Tuesday, March 24, 2015
Monday, March 23, 2015
Attitude Of Gratitude
Attitude of Gratitude
grat·i·tude
noun
the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.
Have a attitude of gratitude! Lets be appreciative of what we have while we are here. Its important we shape our lives in this form. We are ultimately what we comsume, especially when it comes to sharing energy and emotions. If are constantly being negative we ourselves will be negative. I understand it's quite hard being positive in such a negative society but it's capable. Here are 3 ways to help be more grateful. The more we practice being grateful the faster it will be come a habit that's then able to be shared from one soul to another!
1. Count your blessings
2. 1 Compliment your day
3. "What can I learn approach"
Counting your blessings; simply wake up and be thankful for everything we have. The fact we have fresh water, the opportunity to be alive, we have shelter. We get so caught up in stuff that doesn't have the magnitude for the stuff we take for granted. There are people in this world who don't have what we have; the less fortune. They are grateful to just wake up, some thrive to better their situation, and for those who are ill just to spend another moment with family. It's all perspectives. Its how we see things and that's the purpose of gratitude change the way we see situations.
Compliments through out the day; weather it's someone or something compliment it. The more you express the positive sides to life the more it will be an outcome! Look in the mirror and compliment yourself of what you like; or compliment the day, your family, give an effort! Make it a daily task and it will become a habit. You'll just notice the difference in your life, everyday weather it's raining or the sun shining bright you'll look out the window and say, "Hey it's a beautiful day!" Like anything in life the more you practice the better the results.
What Can I Learn Approach; I was taught there is no such thing as "bad days" its all about how we see it. When things dont go in ones favor simply ask yourself, "what can I learn from this?" There is always a message in the mess. Different situations teach you different things. The purpose is to change your perspective. This is going to help by going into an unfavorable situation with a sense positivity. Which will fall back into being grateful as our perspective is now changed and we have learned and are now glad we experienced this! Attitude of gratitude, that's the motto, share it, it's a beautiful thing for a beautiful life!
Matthew A. Arrant
grat·i·tude
noun
the quality of being thankful; readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness.
Have a attitude of gratitude! Lets be appreciative of what we have while we are here. Its important we shape our lives in this form. We are ultimately what we comsume, especially when it comes to sharing energy and emotions. If are constantly being negative we ourselves will be negative. I understand it's quite hard being positive in such a negative society but it's capable. Here are 3 ways to help be more grateful. The more we practice being grateful the faster it will be come a habit that's then able to be shared from one soul to another!
1. Count your blessings
2. 1 Compliment your day
3. "What can I learn approach"
Counting your blessings; simply wake up and be thankful for everything we have. The fact we have fresh water, the opportunity to be alive, we have shelter. We get so caught up in stuff that doesn't have the magnitude for the stuff we take for granted. There are people in this world who don't have what we have; the less fortune. They are grateful to just wake up, some thrive to better their situation, and for those who are ill just to spend another moment with family. It's all perspectives. Its how we see things and that's the purpose of gratitude change the way we see situations.
Compliments through out the day; weather it's someone or something compliment it. The more you express the positive sides to life the more it will be an outcome! Look in the mirror and compliment yourself of what you like; or compliment the day, your family, give an effort! Make it a daily task and it will become a habit. You'll just notice the difference in your life, everyday weather it's raining or the sun shining bright you'll look out the window and say, "Hey it's a beautiful day!" Like anything in life the more you practice the better the results.
What Can I Learn Approach; I was taught there is no such thing as "bad days" its all about how we see it. When things dont go in ones favor simply ask yourself, "what can I learn from this?" There is always a message in the mess. Different situations teach you different things. The purpose is to change your perspective. This is going to help by going into an unfavorable situation with a sense positivity. Which will fall back into being grateful as our perspective is now changed and we have learned and are now glad we experienced this! Attitude of gratitude, that's the motto, share it, it's a beautiful thing for a beautiful life!
Matthew A. Arrant
Intro
Hello,
I'm introducing myself to blog spot. My name is Matt Arrant, I'm 23 years old, from Sunny Southern California. Some of my interest are music, sports, writing, and being in front of the camera. Many people wonder why I'm doing this; I just my purpose to connect with people through words. I would say I'm a very positive person and I feel like I'm quite the motivator. This is just a new challenge for me! I would be sharing my work, poems, post, videos, etc. Hope you all give feedback as it will help me thrive to be better! The more voices the better! Looking forward to this! Lets journey together!
I'm introducing myself to blog spot. My name is Matt Arrant, I'm 23 years old, from Sunny Southern California. Some of my interest are music, sports, writing, and being in front of the camera. Many people wonder why I'm doing this; I just my purpose to connect with people through words. I would say I'm a very positive person and I feel like I'm quite the motivator. This is just a new challenge for me! I would be sharing my work, poems, post, videos, etc. Hope you all give feedback as it will help me thrive to be better! The more voices the better! Looking forward to this! Lets journey together!
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